One of the many reasons I heart NY

Today I took a ride out to Queens on the 7 train, one of the few New York City subway lines that is partially above ground. As we emerged from the dark tunnel I snapped this photo of the school kids sitting across from me.

 

The two girls on the left were playing Miss Mary Mack, while the two boys on the right were staring in awe and amazement at this:

 

Pretty rad, right? I know what you're thinking..."New York City is the most amazing place ever!" Well...you're right. 

While Elvis fans have Graceland and Star Trek fans have trekkie conventions, graffiti artists have 5Pointz. Artists from all over the world descend upon this 200,000 square feet of factory building space to show their artwork. If you come visit me in New York we will definitely make 5Pointz a MUST SEE and then hop over to the Court Square Diner because their pastrami sandwich is really good, extremely delicious, SCRUMTRILLESCENT!

This one time...I came home to a dead fish

I would like to take a moment to remember a most beloved pet, Long John Silver. Because my dad is allergic to cats and my mom dislikes dogs and is also a firm believer that it is common for hamsters to escape from their cages in the middle of the night and then beeline to your bed to bite your toes off, I had many pet goldfish growing up. However, none of them were as beloved as my Long John Silver. He was such a sweet fish, always following my finger and surfacing when he saw me coming with his freeze dried shrimp. He never let on that deep down....in his little fishy heart, something was amiss. Just shy of his second birthday, I came home to find him dead on the carpet, a victim of suicide.

Photo or DIE

My Friend Ashley came up with a game called "Photo or Die". It is probably definitely the best game ever invented with the exception of Mall Madness...there is a sale at the shoe store...anyone? anyone?


Anybody can play Photo or Die as long as you have 1) a digital camera and 2) a group of two or more rowdy, rambunctious, and marginally silly friends. The game is played like this:  One person wields the camera while the group huddles together within the picture frame. The camera wielder will shout out a scenario like "YOU'RE ON A ROLLER COASTER THAT HAS JUST RUN OFF THE TRACKS!"

 

Or "YOU'RE BRUSHING YOUR TEETH AND JUST REALIZED THAT THEY'RE ALL MADE OF CORN!"

 

OR "THE KOOL-AID MAN JUST BUSTED THROUGH THE WALL AND IS HOLDING A MACHETE!"

 

There should be no more than a 3 second delay between the announcing the pose and snapping the picture.

Then, after each round, the camera wielder reviews the image and kicks out the person with the least convincing pose. Eventually, you'll get down to just two people and up with poses like "PROM NIGHT SLOW DANCE TO BOB SEGER'S WE'VE GOT TONIGHT"

Photo or Die can take place anytime, anywhere, but the best results and most fun is had after you've thrown a few back and any sense of modesty or forethought about the likelihood of the pictures ending up on Facebook has disappeared.

5 Years and 3 Shades of Blonde Later...

Well, it's been nearly five years since I made the biggest decision of my life; I switched from crunchy to creamy. It's also been five years since I decided to move 1,192 miles from Kansas City to New York City to start grad school and a new stage of my life...and gee wilikers have a lot of things happened! So many things in fact, it almost seems like it has been an entire lifetime. Here are just a few things that I've learned:

• Walmart is a luxury, there are exactly zero stores in New York that have every single thing you want to buy.
• Breaking up is hard to do, but being single is super fun, especially when you want to spend an entire Saturday watching every movie Heath Ledger ever made and only go outside to buy a pint of Ben and Jerry's.
• Only you can change your own life circumstances.
• You should probably carry an umbrella and spare pair of shoes pretty much everywhere you go.
• Go to every single art event you're invited to. Besides seeing some amazing art, there's always free booze.

• Even when you have a job, live on your own and pay taxes, you will not feel like a grown up. I have the blankie to prove it.
• There is no shame in eating caviar from Ikea...even if you're eating it while you're on the bus going home.
• There's nothing like dressing up for a themed party and then having to get there using public transportation.

 

• NY bagels and pizza are the best in the world.

courtesy of my bff Victoria

courtesy of my bff Victoria

• If you hesitate the opportunity will pass you by.
• It was fun to perform on stage in a band...even if it only lasted one performance.
• If there's an empty seat on a crowded subway...it's empty for a (gross) reason.
• You can run into plushies and public nudity in the same day and it's no big deal.

• New York really is as rad as it looks in The Muppets Take Manhattan, Sex in the City and Law & Order.